If your pussy’s not wet...you’re not living yet.

If your pussy’s not wet...you’re not living yet.

And if you’re a proud cock owner, I hope you’re dripping, too.

The nectar of your life force is meant to flow in and from your body, freely.

Have I made you squirm yet? Is it uncomfortable for you to hear such a direct address of your genitals, your turn on, and the power and presence of your own arousal?


We’ve been taught to fear, to numb, and to block our sexuality and our erotic natures.

In trying to control and limit our life force we hold the breath of our souls. As a culture we castrate men because we fear their power while silencing women because we see their voices as dangerous weapons of change.

The divine masculine and feminine that reside in each one of us regardless of gender are meant to live in a dance. Much like the contraction and relaxation of a muscle, the energy of feminine and masculine is meant to be dynamic, with a full range of motion.

The patriarchal paradigm of living isn’t a gendered issue, it’s a toxic system of disembodiment and dissociation that we buy into every time we violate our desires and ignore our intuitions.

In 2018, how did you perpetuate this limiting paradigm in your own life?

In what ways have you trained yourself to be the good little girl or boy robot that you were taught to be?

Is your back sore from bending over backwards trying to behave yourself in order to keep the world happy?

Have you been fooled into thinking that happiness of others is the point?

Happy isn’t the point at all. Freedom is the point. Fullness is the point. Dynamic life experience is the point.

We crave pain as much as we crave pleasure and chaos as much as order. Usually we’re in denial of this, and it creates an unconscious creation in our lives that feels out of our control. This is what we call ‘victimhood.’

What does it look like to move out of this? To become self-aware? To allow ourselves to self-express? To discard and bring holy destruction to all that holds us captive?

Heading into the last couple of months of 2018 and now sliding into the new year the themes that continue to rise up for me are “innocence” and “simplicity.

Consider with me...

The innocence of lust.

The simplicity of pure desire.

The innocence of sex.

The simplicity of soul.

The innocence of creativity.

The simplicity of only energetically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially ONLY investing in what you truly want.

What does this freedom feel like to you? Where do you feel the liberation of innocence and simplicity in your body? Can you feel it?

This is what it means to be embodied - to be able to assess yourself and fear no emotion or experience possible. You are a powerful being who has sovereignty over your own thoughts and emotions. Yes, yes, yes, creative one, you can face your life with the utmost confidence and conviction this year.

Do you actually KNOW what you want?

Can you, with full body certainty, say that you’re clear on the exact next step you are to take in your life.

Are you allowing yourself to fully give your gifts, to exhale your breath, to express your-Self into the world? Only then will you fully receive, fully inhale, and fully relate to others and live richly.

I see the limits we put on our voices and power as people result in

  • Limited income

  • Sabotaged businesses

  • Watered down leadership

  • Mediocre messaging

  • ‘Failed’ marriages

  • Sloppy sexuality

  • Depression and anxiety

  • Panicked parenting

This is not your divine destiny, love. There is SO MUCH MORE available to you, and, in fact, it is already within you. Just open your mouth, make a moan, hear your words and song. You are a creative being with a vibration all your own. It’s there, we just need to move it through your being and expand it out into the world.

Whether you’re working on transforming your intimate relationships and communication skills in 2019 or you’re launching a new business endeavor and know the deep value of relating to your audience through potent copywriting, I invite you to book in a complimentary Voice Breakthrough call with me. We’ll map out a vision and plan for your year with clear steps for you to take...that honor your true, wild nature and stir up the fragrance of freedom, simplicity, and innocence in your life this year.

Many New Year Blessings, m’love.